October is National
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. It is a time to symbolically join
with hundreds of committed professionals and bereaved parents to remember the
babies who have died during pregnancy or shortly after birth.
Community Hospital is sponsoring its
fifth Walk to Remember on Sunday, October 12 at 3 p.m. The Walk to Remember is
dedicated to babies who have died due to miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy,
stillbirth, and early infant death. This year, plans are being made to dedicate the tree that was planted last year as a symbol of a living memorial to all the babies whose lives ended too
soon. Participants should meet in the St. Alban's Episcopal Church chapel, at
509 West first Street, for the beginning of the walk. There will be a short
memorial service, then participants will walk to Norris Park for the tree
dedication ceremony. Following the tree planting, participants are invited to stay
for refreshments.
Becky Mai, CBSW, and Joleen Bradley,
RN, are Resolve Through Sharing, (RST) bereavement counselors at Community
Hospital. They are available to offer short-term, supportive bereavement
counseling regarding pregnancy and infant loss. Published materials are
available to help families cope with the loss of a baby. Becky and Joleen are
also able to coordinate additional support services, such as finding support
people who have experienced a pregnancy loss who would like to help others that
are grieving. If you or someone you know would like more information about the
support services available, please contact Becky Mai or Joleen Bradley.
Pregnancy and infant loss awareness month was first held in October,
1986, to promote sensitivity and understanding about childbearing losses. It
began with a "Walk to Remember" held in conjunction with the fifth
National Perinatal Bereavement Conference in Chicago, Ill., which was sponsored
by RTS. In 1988, President Reagan proclaimed October as National Pregnancy and
Infant Loss Awareness Month. Now, "Walks to Remember" continue to be
held in many communities each October. Organizing a "Walk" in our
community is an opportunity to make a difference. Raising awareness of the
unique lifetime parenting and bereavement experience of perinatal loss ensures
that sensitive care is given to parents whose babies die during pregnancy or
shortly after birth—that's what we are all working toward.